Lets take this analogy a bit further! There are many women who use the metaphor of a balloon to describe the male form of arousal. Most researchers believe that it was very interesting learning about some facts about the male genital. Interestingly enough, (I almost imagine the women nodding in unison!) this male organ is nothing but muscle coupled with lavishly connected nerve endings and blood vessels. One of the reasons why males are so quick to respond to any form of sexual advances would probably be the fact that the tip of the penis, or fly as it is popularly known is meticulously clogged with nerves that are all too sensitive to touch. There are two main tubes that follow through its physical make up.

To be honest, the reaction to touch is more like a hot air balloon or even a hydraulic lift that completely swells in no time. It is perhaps the action packed motion that makes the male so tactile to any surrounding stimuli. Most research has clearly indicated that it’s quite predictable to understand all that goes on in a male mind, with regard to sexual fantasies. It’s all the more difficult to understand females. Coming back to the scene of an erected fly! During periods of arousal, the gentle stroking and titillating effect has a long way to go before it gets enveloped into the vagina. Since most male reactions are quite prolonged, especially sexual ones, the fly tends to swell even more during the actual act of intercourse. It is more of an involuntary act that forms the complete circuit of lovemaking! And henceforth, the body is set for some real rapid-fire rounds of passion.

Erections in the Unborn too!
It is no wonder that even unborn male kids within the womb also have erections that have been recorded thanks to technology. Any stimuli for that matter, be it erotic books, or lingerie, or even phone sex can cause an erection. And because it is involuntary a movement, it needs to be trained, especially as this proves beneficial at a later stage. Like all of us go through various periods in life, slotted by age and time, there are certain exercises that could be performed to actually train your fly. In Yogic terms, it is known as the ‘Vrajoli Mudra’ or simply put, the start stop technique. While growing up, all teenage boys experience the ‘Wet Dream‘ phenomenon.

This is a clear indication of the act of erection being involuntary. The ‘Vrajoli Mudra’ helps is training the fly, to an extent that you could even have ample control over your erections. Many people think this act to be wrong. According to me, this would be nothing more than a form of exercise, persevered in times when its needed most. Most of my friends have been honest enough in telling me that it’s not always easy for them to coax their husbands’ from indulging themselves, sexually speaking.

A woman’s mind is not trained into believing that she has to warm her man’s bed at his whims and fancies. The ‘Vrajoli Mudra’ helps in easing the air between the spouses. Nothing more than a start stop technique, this ‘Mudra’ helps in restraining yourself from getting an erection. This way you may have an erection at your own will. Of course it isn’t as easy as I have explained it to be, but then when your wife is concerned, I don’t think it’s that difficult! After all, sexual understanding in your partner guarantees you to have a great life ahead. Erections can also play with your feelings, they can be nasty, and may occur at the times when you least expect them to. It’s important to have a healthy sex life and when we talk of a healthy one, then we also need to bear in mind all those aspects that may be harmful for you and could possibly mar a relationship altogether.

Good Sex, Good Life!
Researchers across the world have realized that a good sex life can help you get rid of innumerable problems, sexually speaking. Most of prostrate problems occur due to the clogging of arteries, thanks to infrequent sex. Sex comes as a package deal, as it involves so many reactions and actions. Arousal, erection, lubrication, etc. Erection helps your fly to breath, allowing sufficient amount of oxygen and literally making the penis ’breathe’.

So when you have infrequent bouts of sex, the arteries get clogged in time leading to insufficient oxygen supply, thereby blocking all blood supply to pas through the muscle. And because your body has a natural clock fitted in, it’s quite natural for you to suffer from diseases as serious as prostrate.

And all of this, thanks to you not looking after her mood swings, and she punishing you with irregular sex… Think about it… Some food for thought